Introduction
Attending a deposition as a party in a lawsuit was a new experience for me in early 2022. Craig and I were scheduled for a two-day block of depositions on a Thursday and Friday in a conference room at the Otter Tail County Courthouse. Those two days happened to be two of the coldest days of the year. The wind chills were terrible as Craig and I had to park about a block away and walk to the courthouse entrance. As we entered, we had to go through metal detectors and screening devices to make sure we weren’t carrying any weapons. The attorneys had a free pass, apparently, as they just walked around the checkpoints. I noted that as Attorney Kirsten Hansen (daughter of retired Judge Mark F. Hansen) walked through the building, employees were saying “hi” to her as if she was a very familiar face.
I Was Supposed to Stay Quiet
We expected full, seven-hour marathons, though they ended sooner than that. Craig was deposed on the first day. Anyone who knows me is aware that I have an opinion that I often like to share. When you attend another person’s deposition, however, you are not supposed to answer the questions posed to them. Apparently, I must have forgotten this obvious rule of thumb midway through Craig’s depo. The first time, I asked if I could speak up because I knew the answer to a question that no one else knew. Two attorneys turned, looked at me, and quickly blurted out, “No!”
A Second Interruption
Okay! I would be quiet! For a short time anyway. It wasn’t too much later that I accidentally blurted something out when I thought Craig was going to get an answer wrong. This time, the attorneys didn’t even bother looking at me. That lady is hopeless.
The Family’s Verdict
When we arrived home that night, Craig broke the news to our daughters that their mother couldn’t keep silent during HIS deposition. That was met with roars of laughter, as they exclaimed, “You’re not supposed to do that, Mom!” They clearly knew my personality and propensity for speaking my mind.
